Never in my wildest imagination i had thought one day i would be writing or rather explaining my single status...
but as it is with life sometimes,somethings crop up and even the most hard line stances are needed to be softend.
Usually,i wouldn't have cared to give this topic much of my thinking time if not in a span of three days, my three different friends wouldn't have wondered aloud on me being still single.
The reason for their amazement is that they consider me to be quite a nice guy,with a good sense of humour,a great personality and being someone for whom many more other attractive nouns can be used,simply put a guy every girl would be happy to be with.
I wholeheartedly agreed with everything they said (who wouldn't???) but just couldn't answer the "WHY ????"
I guess that there can be numerous reasons and explanations for this-abstract,practical,simple,complex...
but i just couldn't think of any at that time.
and still can't because i've never mused much on me not having that 'special someone'.
but now i guess i must rake my brains and maybe try to solve this dilemma of theirs(i still think i'm wasting both yours and my time but maybe after this i'll have something to say if someone else wondered aloud in the future)
Yeah i'm single ! ! and have maintained the 'status quo' almost my whole life.
I do have many friends from the opposite sex and they do outnumber my male-friends by a ratio of two is to one, but that special one is not there.
I would be lieing if i said i wouldn't like to find her but its just that i'm not looking passionately enough for her,its more like a passing search.
There are two reasons for that- first and formost, i don't get the time.
In juggling my family and friends,my hobbies and studies,my social life and my obligations, i don't get any time so that i can look for her.
And the girls i do like (and so find by pure chance and luck...) become friends,but that is another story(and the main idea behind one of my theory of "Friendly Practical Love"...watch this space and you'll soon find it published here.)
Second,and this i feel is the most important,i haven't got the faintest idea what i'm looking for???
There is no 'dream woman' who dwells in my imagination(barring Jessica Alba).
For me, there is no such thing called a soulmate or love.
There is no one called a perfect person.
I'm not perfect and so if i myself would become shallow and strive for perfection i would be an hypocrite !!
I believe that the only thing there is,is compatibility. A relationship moves upon sacrifice(???),understanding,and commitment.
Both the partners really needs to work hard to make it successful.
And there is another problem(this some of my friends have told me at various junctions of my life)
MY IMAGE ! !
I'm told that inspite of me being so nice i don't send the right kind of signals.
I don't seem to be a sentimental person(huh??),someone who takes any thing seriously.
I seem like a guy who won't stick to one girl and someone who just won't be able to handle a relationship.
I can blame my extrovert nature and my happy-go-lucky attitude towards life for this but quite frankly i don't(maybe i should blame my outgoing nature due to which i had minimum of three new crushes each day and me telling everyone that "ya !! i like her").
I don't because that was what i had intended to do all along.
I chose to be this because i wanted it to be like that.
I show maturity when one of my friend is in trouble or when i'm lending a helping hand or when the time comes, but most of the time i'm cracking jokes and always trying to bring a smile or a chuckle on the others persons face(and i do feel i usually succeed).so most of the time my serious side remains tucked in for my personal use only and not to show to others.
If to get a girlfriend means sacrificing all this,sacrificing what i'm then iguess i'm lucky i don't have that.
if i'm supposed to find someone, she should be ready to take me as i'm,as i'm ready to take her with all her virtues and vices.
As for the "seriousness" part, i don't believe that i should (or can) become serious for the innumerable number of crushes i have.
I'll get serious one day, but that would be the day when i would really be in a relationship, when the girl would be serious for me.
On an ending note i would just like to present a piece of conversation i had with one of my closest and greatest pals,sometimes back.i present this because i feel like it sums up my thoughts pretty nicely and accurately...
"The problem with all of the guys in our group is",he said," is simply that,that they have carved a prestige issue out of it and it is not just the guys in our group,the same thing holds true for 95% of guys we know"
"They think that now we are in college,but still we don't have a girlfriend...our life sucks"
"While you and me are from the small saner lot...we are noe adversed by the idea of not having a girlfriend but frankally we take it in our stride. We are easy living our life...we try to woo but if we don't succeed even then its all right...we'll take it with a pinch of salt and move on towards newer pastures...if we get a girlfriend fine and if don't....well ok we'll be still living and rocking"
Amen to that...
I don't know about you...
but now i think..
GIRLFRIEND OR NO GIRLFRIEND... I'M STILL HAPPY !!!!
and i guess that is what matters the most....
don't you????
Yours Truly.
- Antriksh Satyarthi
- Like a true gemini i've got a multifaceted personality. can't write about each of them so one will have to discover through the layers
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ummm..wait..let the whole thing dawn completely.
hmm..that sense of deja vu was there.lol. knowing u for quite sometime now(and knowing myself for last 16 years!), i knew almost all of it already but to read it in ur words was the most amusing part..i would be lying if i say u dint make me think. waiting eagerly for the "friendly practical love" theory..that, i guess, is gonna be new for me..issit??
I show maturity when one of my friend is in trouble or when i'm lending a helping hand or when the time comes, but most of the time i'm cracking jokes and always trying to bring a smile or a chuckle on the others persons face(and i do feel i usually succeed).so most of the time my serious side remains tucked in for my personal use only and not to show to others. DITTO! lol
by the way, a few things about this one-i would want u to rethink upon-are here---
i haven't got the faintest idea what i'm looking for???
There is no 'dream woman' who dwells in my imagination(barring Jessica Alba).
For me, there is no such thing called a soulmate or love.
if i know u, n if we both are "same-same" this is a pure white lie. Given that we are not looking for the special someone(apparently, we are not-but that little lacuna is there, no matter how much we deny-stop shaking ur head, this is THE TRUTH), we do have a shadow of what we want her/him to be like in our thoughts-and thats precisely why u have Jessica n i have Abhishek.lol..
And for me, it was never about perfection. WAKE UP!!anyone u know, hu's looking for someone perfect, send them to me after 6 years(haan, i just decided to become a psychiatrist)
A relationship moves upon sacrifice(???),understanding,and commitment.
Both the partners really needs to work hard to make it successful.
Contacy bhavya for more on that. I get a feeling you dint have the best of thoughts when you wrote that. Would love to discuss it soon.(hmm..)
I don't seem to be a sentimental person(huh??),someone who takes any thing seriously.
I seem like a guy who won't stick to one girl and someone who just won't be able to handle a relationship.
In fact, you are one of those very few guys i know(okay, u the only one out of this whole pool) who can ever be serious about a girl..and heylo! u? not senti? thoda to hai. i remember the "father-son talk" and "brother bonding" from our last conversation..lol (i know its not exactly being sentimental but borders on that-it shows u emotional n stuff.right?)
if i'm supposed to find someone, she should be ready to take me as i'm,as i'm ready to take her with all her virtues and vices. kya? business hai kya? Its obvious, n by the way, girls know that better than guys.(no discussion on that, i know it too well.)
I'll get serious one day, but that would be the day when i would really be in a relationship,when the girl would be serious for me.
Amen!
vaise serious, as in? shaadi types?
anyways,lemme know as soon as you find her..
n post that theory of urs soon.(dont take ages like u did for this one)
take care.
ohkay ma dear smarty...
u wanted me to "few things about this one-i would want u to rethink upon"...
so i did n i'm rather explaining a little just 4 u....
first for the "looking someone part"
i dunno about u,mayb u model ur dream man around abhishek but i might not b considering jessica alba as a dream gal..
ohkay she is hot n stuff(i have to stop talking bout her cos talking bout her gets me into this fantasizing mode and den i cant say nething or write too....look i've just started doing it)but i have serious doubts whether she can b the one (i'm being choosy?? n even dat in the case of her??? i must b outta my mind....)i mean i will love to have someone as pretty as her but if she is someone i can't have an "intelligent" conversation with den it would b heading straight to splitsville...mind dat i said 'intelligent' and not just conversation...
2nd...
well i firmly believe in wat i said about working on a relationship...
ohkay i didnt elaborate but it was i just couldn't...u'll have to have a face-to-face (or atleast online talk) so dat mayb i can make u understand...n mayb i have one with bhavya too...with u as the onlooker(n mayb the judge too)
3rd...
well ur the first gal or friend to sat dat....
so i must thank u...
but i think u misinterpreted my senti side...
everyone is a little senti for their family,friends and siblings....
i was talking about being senti for some gal...
mayb crying or becoming a 'devdas'have something to do with it...i dunno...i'm not so,so cant say nething...will think n let u knw...
n i think u took my "father-son talk" and "brother bonding" too literally...
we do not having senti talks but tat is wat i call wen i hang out with them...
have silly talks...crack jokes and sometimes pull either their or my mom's leg...waise i'm also sometimes dere butt of jokes bt i guess i make it even more funnier by degrading myself more so i think they think the novelty is lost....
4th...
well i know dat...
it was just a statement i was making...
dats y my galfriends outnumber my male friends...
dey r smart n strangely i agree to wat dey r saying...
while with guys i do have my differences
5th...
well cant say shaadi types..atleast not yet... but yeah just mayb...
someone i can talk 2 my parents about..with whom i consider myself to spend the rest of my life with...just mayb...too early to think about dat...
ohhh n lastly the "perfect part"
well i had already tht tat 6 yrs frm now i might let u knw dat i also want u to consider me...lol...
but still too early to say or do nething..still got a lot to do n acheive...both u n me...
n finall the ending note...
the theory is post poned till i fine tune it...
ohkay i'm not considering it to get a nobel(dey donot have one for socialogally or else i would have tried...u knw dat i would...) but i like to do everything in a way dat it atleast appeals to me...
waise b its guys thinking on gals or rather relationships...n i have given u a little insight on dat...
ohh n keep posting ur comments...
after ur blog its the second thing i keep looking forward to...
byes n obviously take care...(i would have to say this??? i mean c'mon its so obvious !!)
Though its very lame n we both are practically chatting our way to glory on this site(which is not meant for it!) but all the same..i need to tell u all this, and since u not on msngr right now, i see no better way, here you go--
About the dream girl, what i meant to say was that you DO think about her, subconsciously, its there on your mind...you have drawn her out on the canvas of your mind(like someone you can have an intelligent conversation with, who is smart(?) who is someone like what i will be 6 years from now..*wink lol.)
About working on a relationship, i am not sure, but i guess, if two people are truly in love, they dont have to make an "effort" to stick together..n even if you have to,because you want to be together, its worth the pain..what say? i would even give up on coffee!(eh? though it wont be required, hopefully but just to cite an example,thats something i really cant go without..and i could not think of anything better..cummon u know how "our" brain works..lol)
I don't seem to be a sentimental person(huh??),someone who takes any thing seriously.
Where does it say its abt girls..it just says that u aint senti..which i guess u are..and m pretty sure once u find the right one, some one u click with-u MIGHT just become a devdas too(which i really hope u never have to become!).But she'll definitely make u senti...crushes k liye koi senti hota nahi(intelligent log to nahi hote..) n us special someone k liye senti hone k liye us special bandi ka hona zaruri hai!![And i thought it was COMMON SENSE! huh!]
About the fifth part...i guess u the one who needs to think about it. And fast. You gotta know what you expecting out of a relationship..(hmm..that sounded "wise"!! lol)
about ur theory--i want it on before the 5th of may. I dunno how u do it, but better rush with it..
n yeah bye..n take care!(even obvious things need to be stated-just to let the other person know that even though its obvious, u want it to be taken into account..whatsay?)
hey, i rely don't know who u r, just came across this blog accidentally. so as i m here and after reading ur mind i wud like to comment on the first topic about ur single status. what i felt was u r a bit inexperienced in this topic. i don't want to fight, argue or do anything of tht sort, just tht i m expressing wht i think and u can correct me too if i go wrong. its just a discussion process i hope u understand. i actually did not like tht sacrifice thing, that in a relationship u hav to sacrifice and other stuff. what i mean to say is don't ever compromise and ur real mate will the person who will give u n ur thoughts enough space. even i don't believe in sacrificing coz on compromise a relationship can't sustain. what matters is love,understanding,trust,selflessness,passion,etc. many many.
its not necessary to hav a girlfriend, i feel love is not life but it is a part of life, thr r still so many priorities in life. n why make such a fuss about girls yaar, i have never considered much. boys and girls i hav always treated alike. y do we need to distinguish. but then it depends upon u, if u come across a person whom u think is right for u i don't mean perfect. i mean whom u love, who u think will understand u, give u ur space, will support u , n be thr wit u even at the time of crisis. its not compulsory to have a girl friend, but maybe at some point of ur life u may feel that u cannot live without tht person or something like tht then eventually u will need her in ur life. so this is it. just my take in these things,,, i can actually write much more but first i need to be assured tht u r not gettin bored by readin my opinion and tht u will also participate in this then only will i proceed. till then, adieus. take care.
swati.
Hi Ms.Swati(if its Mrs. do correct me...)
First thing first...
i'm quite thankful for the "accident" due to which u came across me.
n next i thank u for the time n effort u took to write wat u thought.
i'm a guy who likes to get feedback so u cant imagine how happy i'm to receive one.(that simply means tat u dont need to worry about "me getting bored",and be assured tat i'll be reading everything u publish with interest)
Now starting the discussion process...
ya u are right wen u think that i'm a bit inexperienced in this topic.
as i had mentioned in the blog i've never been in a relationship...
however i have played the part of the middleman n counselor in many of them.
so i guess all my thoughts and what i feel about the issue are affected by what my friends(both guys n gals)went through...
i think when i wrote tat "sacrifice" wala part i should have been a little more specific.
i agree what u say that a relationship needs "love,understanding,trust,selflessness,passion etc"
but it sometimes needs a little working out and fine tuning too...
by sacrifice i dont imply tat one should stop being "himself" or shun everything s/he likes to do.
i simply meant tat u might have to miss maybe a crucial cricket match or maybe change the deo u wear or maybe switch to a diet of salads...
i know these are very trivial matters,but many a times these 'small-trivial-matters' take the form of quite BIG issues and misunderstandings.
maybe sacrifice was the wrong word and i should've sticked with adjustment...
but i still believe whatever u call it,it is an important part 4 a successful relation.
u say 'dont ever compromise' but how can that be??
a realtion b/w two persons have one thing also...
"Human Ego"...
its quite normal because every person on this world does have it...and in a realtionship ego clashes are bound to happen...
sacrificing just meant that curbing ur ego a little bit and taking a logical stand and maybe yeah,sometimes bend a lil too!!
after all i feel tat it is worth to b with someone whom u love.
i also again think tat,tat not having a girlfriend is a big deal...
tats y i weaved tat conversation bit in the end...
i dont feel that there is something missing from my life jst because i dont have a girlfriend...
but sadly not everyone agrees with me.
specially the guys...
i tried a lot to put some sense into them but i still haven't succeded fully...and still haven't given up...
and lastly,well the fuss is not over gals..
i treat all my friends equally and accordingly,not on the basis of their gender but on the basis of their personalities.
again there is a lot bubbling in my 'cauldron-full-of-thoughts'..
but i think this is quite enough for the first exchange...
i'll b waiting to hear more from you.
untill den keep rocking...
n god bless you...
hey,well i thught u won't reply. so u have turned out to be sumthn which i hadn't imagined. but anyway i like ur contemplative mood simulatanously maintaining ur attitude. i can very well understand what u r tryin to say or perhaps i can atleast try to. i know what that sacrifice meant but still i thought u might be talkin abt larger issues but u turned out to be a thughtful person who knows and is conscious of what he is saying.
u were absolutely correct in sayin that trivial things matter, i completely agree wit u.
u gave examples regarding missin a match or changing deo etc. whatever. i do understand what u r tryin to say, but listen yaar,,u knw once u start liking that person, havin passion for ur mate then i feel u can vry well understand ur priorities. maybe sumtimes to meet ur girlfriend, u might not want to see that match. see this happens initially. but once the relationship is done, ur understanding is good, then maybe she'll then try to understand yu, and will go according to ur liking, i mean give u time to watch d match etc.. i know in a relationship thr r two persons and therefore two different opinions which sometimes gives rise to clashes, but that is what understanding is all about.
smetimes u d bend, i don't deny but maybe the term "bend" maynot be apt to use. and one more point i feel when some clashes arise, its always better to u know discuss and talk rather than arguing or fighting.
the ego thing is also very rightly arised. its very natural for every human being to be egoistic , but it does bother and sometimes even hurt d other person , but u know if u r a rely sensible individual then these things will not matter much, u think how precious or how important the person is fo rur life... yaar love's gonna conquer it all. if only ur love is real, pure and genuine and not guided by lust feelings.
to ur information even i don't hav any boyfriend and i m not sad or upset or u know bangin my head against d wall , i m not doin all those things. maybe my life might hav been much more interesting if i had a boyfriend, but i m still hapy yaar. i m quite mature and i feel i can't just stick to handsome face n crush, what i need even that be a friend- gud person, trustworthy, intelligent, honest,,n i think these things r rely important other than gud face. i mean how long will tht gud face last, even if it does, koi farak nahi padta hai,,
well don't worry much, maybe at some point of time u will get d rite person,,, as of now i know u r quite happy wit ur life and i m sure u will get somone. u r one of d very few ppl who care to think n dare to write. u r contemplative, i feel u r quite mature , sensible n understandin. coz i hav noticed at the same time u focus on various shades of a topic, rather being stubborn and sticked to one point and thats y i can see that u r quite understanding.
n yes one more thing i liked ur write-up(the second article-delhi high court). the conception was quite good maybe needs some polishing, but i can rely understand ur sensibilities.
well excuse me for replyin so late but i actually thought u might not reply so i didn't sign in.
anyway we can still keep talkin,,, and discussin n maybe fightin sumtimes,,but thts fun,,u know clashing of intelligence , intense discussions, i rely love them.
i know u'll reply, so waitin,,
till then adieus! take care.
this is ms. swati
hey,well i thught u won't reply. so u have turned out to be sumthn which i hadn't imagined. but anyway i like ur contemplative mood simulatanously maintaining ur attitude. i can very well understand what u r tryin to say or perhaps i can atleast try to. i know what that sacrifice meant but still i thought u might be talkin abt larger issues but u turned out to be a thughtful person who knows and is conscious of what he is saying.
u were absolutely correct in sayin that trivial things matter, i completely agree wit u.
u gave examples regarding missin a match or changing deo etc. whatever. i do understand what u r tryin to say, but listen yaar,,u knw once u start liking that person, havin passion for ur mate then i feel u can vry well understand ur priorities. maybe sumtimes to meet ur girlfriend, u might not want to see that match. see this happens initially. but once the relationship is done, ur understanding is good, then maybe she'll then try to understand yu, and will go according to ur liking, i mean give u time to watch d match etc.. i know in a relationship thr r two persons and therefore two different opinions which sometimes gives rise to clashes, but that is what understanding is all about.
smetimes u d bend, i don't deny but maybe the term "bend" maynot be apt to use. and one more point i feel when some clashes arise, its always better to u know discuss and talk rather than arguing or fighting.
the ego thing is also very rightly arised. its very natural for every human being to be egoistic , but it does bother and sometimes even hurt d other person , but u know if u r a rely sensible individual then these things will not matter much, u think how precious or how important the person is fo rur life... yaar love's gonna conquer it all. if only ur love is real, pure and genuine and not guided by lust feelings.
to ur information even i don't hav any boyfriend and i m not sad or upset or u know bangin my head against d wall , i m not doin all those things. maybe my life might hav been much more interesting if i had a boyfriend, but i m still hapy yaar. i m quite mature and i feel i can't just stick to handsome face n crush, what i need even that be a friend- gud person, trustworthy, intelligent, honest,,n i think these things r rely important other than gud face. i mean how long will tht gud face last, even if it does, koi farak nahi padta hai,,
well don't worry much, maybe at some point of time u will get d rite person,,, as of now i know u r quite happy wit ur life and i m sure u will get somone. u r one of d very few ppl who care to think n dare to write. u r contemplative, i feel u r quite mature , sensible n understandin. coz i hav noticed at the same time u focus on various shades of a topic, rather being stubborn and sticked to one point and thats y i can see that u r quite understanding.
n yes one more thing i liked ur write-up(the second article-delhi high court). the conception was quite good maybe needs some polishing, but i can rely understand ur sensibilities.
well excuse me for replyin so late but i actually thought u might not reply so i didn't sign in.
anyway we can still keep talkin,,, and discussin n maybe fightin sumtimes,,but thts fun,,u know clashing of intelligence , intense discussions, i rely love them.
i know u'll reply, so waitin,,
till then adieus! take care.
this is ms. swati
hi Ms. Swati...
ohkay i'm a bit lost for words here...
quite a bit of praise u heaped upon me...
but hey I AIN'T COMPLAINING...
on the othrer hand i just can't stop smiling...
so u have turned out to be sumthn which i hadn't imagined.
i do hope tat something is good n satisfactory...
on the things u wrote ...well there is nothing i can say which can counter it cos i agree with everything u wrote...word to word...
tats the reason also due to which i can't say anything to strenghten them cos they are already so well said (nd explained) tat adding anything will just b of no avail...
only one 'trivial'matter...
u said tat to meet ur girlfriend, u might not want to see that match.
my question...
why does the guy have to do dis???
mayb sometimes the gal also needs to b a little understanding...
dont u think??
this 'bending' has to b a two way street cos if it aint sooner or later one of the partner might get the feeling of "being-taken-for-granted"(i hv been witness to this a lot of time...)
and understanding and resolving the issues r two things which r very important but untill the couple realises this,no matter how many times it is stressed upon, the result aint gonna change for the good...
ohh n yeah i feel i'm a lil stubborn cos i do listen to everyone but it takes a really appealing argument to change my views...
but just a lil cos i'm always ready to change them..
on an ending note, i know tat second article is a little crude but that is really closed to my heart because of the simple reason i wrote the whole bunch up in a single sitting...
a feat for me...
and that is why i resist my self to polish it...
(i usually take a lot of time to write something cos i keep refining it till i'm happy eith it..tats y i got a lots of drafts but only three published articles..n y sakshi gets getting irritated..irritated???mayb tats too strong a word bt cant find anything apt so i guess it'll have to do for the time being)
and i also love that 'clash of intelligence nd intense discussions etc.'
it helps in broading my horizons...
nd hey if u r also into writing blogs pls send me a link..
i'll love to read into them....
PS-r u on orkut too???
u can find my profile link in my 'about me' here...
till next time keep rocking...
byes...
hey,
directly coming to ur questins.
i think u took tht in a wrong way, what i mean is u hav just misunderstood it a bit. see i never mentioned tht it has to be the guy and not the gal bing a little understandin. u gav me an example of u missin d match so i wrote. n i believe if both the persons love each other, if they r passionate abt each other than the "trivial matters" thing will apply to both. i think both d partners need to understand tht. if ur love is genuine and u understand and realize how important tht person is in ur life then whrs the question of taken-for granted?. but i think sometimes it happens tht if any person lves u like anythn ya u do take-it-for granted coz u feel so secure. but hey thts not a gud sign at all, to err is human, sometimes mistakes happen wht matters is whether realisation is thr or not after makin a mistake. then i don't think its of much problem. but u know its never planned and done, in this type of relationshis somethings just happen in their own way, maybe unconsciusly n u don't mind also if they r for good.
i compltly agree wit tht understandin n resolvin the issues thing, but u sounded a bit pessimistic, i dunno y. hey don't be. there is therefore i feel a problem in this arrange marriages system. i m not chargin i know they hav worked well in past. but time is changed n its high time we think practically abt these things rather than folloing the systm. the system may hav loop-holes n its up to u to decide wht path u want to choose.
n regardin ur stubborn attitude i don't mind at all.i can be double as stubborn as u r. n who told u to change ur views, if uthink ur correct then y change . one thing wht u can do is u can broaden those views, mayb experience more, understand various shades of a topic. n i actually wanted to talk abt this. even by that polish thing i didn't refer to ur grammar or english okay. u r already too good at tht unlike me. i m rely bad at english or perhaps vocabulary. i wish i hadn't neglected it in d past. d problem is i can think a lot, i can know a lot but when it comes to expression, i can straight away express it like i m doin it now, but i can't beutifully express it using gud vocabulary, gud sentence formation n sumtimes grammar too. but anyway, i 'll try my best to improve coz i m not a persn who can accept failure. in this regard u r way too good than me. in my last response i think i hav praised u a lot, but this time it will be the criticism part. not rely criticism but just wanted to tell u sumthn.
in tht second article of urs i feel everythn isn't covered. i m not chargin by sayin tht u were wrong or sumthn, u were absolutely correct i completely agree wit u. what i mean to tell is u need to explore more n write more. these topics r not as simple as they seem to be. there is soo much . i don't know whether u know everythn or not.even i don't know everythn. i know this societal taboos and stigmas, if removed, will highly reduce the pyscological damage. i m not sayin it will completely erase but will lessen. see basically wht i mean is, think more, see more, write more, thr is still so much to write abt this topic, so many shades to cover. i m not sayin i m super intelligent or sumthn. i know wht i m. bec. u r a contemplative person i thought to tell u this. i know wit time n experience u will surely develop.
anyway enough of this, wht else?
well i m not into writin blogs, so i don't hav mine.
think of some other topic for our discussion next time.
take care.
swati
hey miss swati...
wassup??
well jst wanted to say this to ya...tat due to unavoidable circumstances i wont b able to write more often here...
but i dont wanna miss our 'intelligent discussions' so i was just wondering whether u can mail me sometime??
antrikshsatyarthi@gmail.com..tats my id..
(i have been throughly warned tat this is not the place 4 personal mails but as i didnt have ur 'return addresse here had to resort to this...)
w8ing to hear frm ya..
byes
:o..okay..was at a loss(of words n thoughts) while reading those pearls of thoughts n all. You people (swati n rixxy) seem to really KNOW what you talking about. I really liked this about you ppl..KNOWING and STICKING to your point..This is something i have never exactly been able to do despite repeated attempts..and the "koshish continues"..lol
Anyways, about me being irritated because ur drafts hardly ever reach their rightful place...well, its an understatement.(m more than irritated. Disgusted and sick are the words :x) I guess u have a book of drafts by now?? n guess what...this habit of urs has tricked down on me too[as usual ;)] and i happen to have 2 drafts n one faint idea..dunno wen m actually gonna bring it out. hmphhh...by the way, u have been procrastinating for ages now.High time u mend ur ways.
Wish to c SOMETHING NEW on ur "banjar blog" when i last log in.I can do nothing more than "wishing" vaise bi. huh. 6 feet k logon ko aadhe foot k log DHAMKI ni dete na. :p
That's about it. and yes, about the taken for granted stuff...wud just add that even i have "witnessed" that a number of times..not exactly in the same sense but between friends n things like that. But hey, its just a matter of one call/sms from that other person and everything falls into place.(I guess n HOPE its the same in the bf-gf case//i wont know.)
Thats finally it.
will sign off now.
had to write all this after signing out from both the messengers...some ppl were crediting spidey 3 wid a bhangar story.lol.
P.S. for swati-Expect the unexpected from this antriksh.lol.god bless.
Gosh! sry rixxy...virtually made a chat room out of ur comment page..but i guess u AINT COMPLAINING..as usual.lol.tc.study hard n sorry for ignoring u while writing this. But again, i guess its okay with u.lol.bbye.
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